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How to make a household budget you will still be keeping in February

Most budgets fail because they ask you to predict the unpredictable. This one starts from the bills that do not move and leaves the rest loose on purpose.

The short answer

Do this on your own numbers, in an hour

  1. Write down what arrives each month, at its lowest normal level, not its best month.
  2. List the bills that do not move, with their real amounts, not rounded ones.
  3. Subtract. What is left is the honest size of your month.
  4. Take your savings line off the top - even a small fixed amount - and move it on payday.
  5. Split the remainder into a weekly number. Weekly is easier to hold than monthly, because the horizon is short.
  6. Write what you will do when the number runs out early: which spend pauses first. Deciding in advance is the whole trick.

The two rules that keep it alive

First: a budget you cannot keep is not a budget, it is a wish. If the first month fails, change the numbers, not your self-respect.

Second: one number you never audit. Money for the things that make the month bearable is not waste, and dragging every coffee through a spreadsheet is how people quit.

Where this goes wrong

The free tool for this

The 50 / 30 / 20 split, on your own numbers - The 50 / 30 / 20 split, on your own numbers. It runs in the page, asks for your own numbers, and sends nothing anywhere.

If you would rather not build it yourself

Money Map holds the whole method in one spreadsheet: money in, fixed bills, the savings line, the split, and a net-worth tab that updates as you go. Money Map is $14. See it on the shop, and there is a plain page about it here: what it holds.

Questions people actually ask

Cash, card, or both?

Whichever you will actually look at. The method works on paper, in a sheet, or in an envelope; what fails is a system split across three of them.

What about irregular income?

Plan on your lowest normal month and treat anything above it as a bonus you split between savings and one thing you wanted. That way the plan never breaks on a bad month.

Read next

How to work out your net worth on one page, without the jargon, How to budget when your income changes every month.

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